3 STEPS TO STOP THE CRAZY TALK IN YOUR HEAD

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Have you ever said to yourself:

  • “I can’t!”
  • “What if I’m wrong?”
  • “Maybe someone asked that question already?”

How many times do we stop ourselves from raising our hand, speaking up in the meeting, making the phone call, or connecting with others at a networking event?

How many opportunities do we miss when we listen to the stories in our head?

I know I had missed a few until I started paying attention. Until I realized that asking the question at a large conference was one of the best ways to begin networking conversations with other attendees. When I realized that speaking up during the meeting raised my profile and gave me more chances of being noticed and ultimately promoted. When I realized that nobody would make me stand out but ME.

It’s up to you

So how can YOU overcome all those voices in your head that want to keep you quiet and keep you small?

Here are 3 strategies I have used that might help you:

  1. PREPARE

Whenever you attend an event, be prepared to contribute in some way. Whether it is a large event, and you take the opportunity to approach the microphone to ask a question or contribute to the conversation in a small gathering, commit to being heard within the first half of the event, ideally before the break. Make it a goal.

  • SOOTHE THE FEAR

Advice such as “don’t listen to your fear” or “drown your fear with positive statements” might only turn down the volume of the fear conversation for a few moments. I suggest you do the opposite and give your fear a voice for about two minutes. Ask that voice, what is true about what you are saying. Listen to what it has to say and then let that fearful voice in your head know that you’ve got this. You are not afraid and not to worry, you will not put yourself in any danger.

  • FOCUS ON THE REWARD

We create all kinds of stories in our heads when we want to stay stuck and not move forward. Fear usually pops up when we are looking to cross the boundary of our comfort zone, so be kind to yourself. Know that it’s a good sign that you are showing discomfort to a new situation. Take it as a sign that you are daring greatly, as Brene Brown would say. Breathe, be kind to yourself, and step beyond that fear. On the other side of fear, there is always an expanded version of you, a world of new opportunities!

The stories in your head

Whatever you do, look at the stories in your head as old voices that want to keep you safe. They are not your enemy they are your protective friend who wants to keep you safe. Don’t ignore them, reassure them that you are stronger than the fear and then MOVE forward!

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