The term soulmate has been thrown around for so long, that sometimes it can be hard to know what the term means, or how one even goes about finding this person.
The truth is that the term “soulmate” isn’t just about finding the “one” it’s about understanding that we have many soulmates that come into our lives. That follow us through lifetimes. But when the term is used in a way to mean “the one you are meant to be with” many people want to know how they can manifest that.
It’s important to know that there is more than one person you may be meant to be with.
People come and go in and out of our lives, acting all the while as mirrors, reflecting back to us that which we need to come into awareness about. They are the ones that help us grow the most if we allow for the change to occur within. Sometimes a person may encounter many loves in their life that do just this. That love can be male or female, friend, husband, wife, partner, etc. And the relationship doesn’t always have to be romantic in nature.
But if your intention is that you want to call in a special love interest called “soulmate,” what can you do to make that a reality for yourself?
The first thing I will tell you is to throw out your list of criteria for what they look like, how much money they have, and other expectations you can think of. You see, it’s our expectations in life that cause us the greatest pain, suffering, and steals our joy. Those same expectations can blind you so when the person that would be for your best and highest good to be a partner is manifested, you might miss it.
The next thing is to understand you have to be what you want to attract. So, if you want love in your life, you must first be a source of love. Not just to those you care about, but to those you don’t know, and even the ones you don’t like. No, this doesn’t mean you have to start liking those people, let’s face it there are just some people in this world that we may never like. But that doesn’t mean we can’t look beyond their flaws to see the truth of who they are, the same souls, the same energy source that came from the Divine. They, whether you want to admit it or not, are made of the same essence as you are.
Laws of attraction dictate that in order to manifest what we want, we must be vibrating at that same frequency.
This idea will push you out of your comfort zone, force you to take a step back and act from a place of love instead of a place of anger, resentment, judgment, or any other lower vibrating frequency. When you spend time working on your thoughts and finding ways to see situations from a place of love in your heart, you will raise your own frequency to be in alignment with the frequency of love, which is the highest frequency. Even Jesus said, “Love thy Neighbor.” He didn’t say you had to like them. Loving others is simply saying, “I love you more than my desire to be right.”
I’ll share with you how this helped me in my marriage when I was still with my husband. Many years ago, before I realized that it was time to leave him, during a time I was still trying to stick that round peg in the square hole, my husband and I would fight, and it would leave me so angry, sad, resentful, and I would just want to run away. Those fights were stealing my joy and my peace. Until one day, I realized that if I could just stop engaging him when he acted like that, then I could hold onto those things I loved most. So, I began to say a mantra to myself, “I love you more than my need to be right.” I set my intention to do this whenever he engaged in trying to get me to argue with him. And in time it was inside me, and I would not allow him to cause a reaction in me. Eventually, I found that I was able to walk away, not angry or resentful, and still hold my peace, knowing that it was his issue, not mine.
We all are capable of controlling ourselves, but we can never control other people.
That means we have the ability to keep our vibrations lifted at or close to the frequency of love. By doing so, we will attract situations to us with compassion and love even when they are challenging. The universe will be merciful, and though we still need to learn and grow, the lessons will not be as painful.
If you want to attract your romantic interest soulmate or any soulmate for that matter, this is the plan I suggest you follow. While it may not seem like much, it is so effective. Why? Because love is the highest frequency to manifesting more love in our lives. It’s not just about showing others love, we must also reflect that same if not more love on ourselves. Because if we cannot love ourselves, how can we expect others to love us?
Be open, be loving, be compassionate, and allow the universe to work magic in your life.
Wake up and tell the universe/God, that you want more love in your life, then be that love you want. And watch as miracles unfold before you.
Peace and love to you all!
I invite you to connect with me if you would like to work on manifesting more of your desires in life.