The Lessons of Parkinson’s

The Lessons of Parkinson's by Jennifer Maki #WUVIP #ParkinsonsAwareness #TheWellnessUniverse #BlogOfTheDay

For 10 years he felt he was going a little crazy, okay maybe a lot, in moments.

Let us never negate our intuition, because some 10-odd years, countless conversations with GPs, a 6-month wait for a neurologist, and literally 5 minutes of testing with him, later, sanity was offered up.

“I’m not going to beat around the bush, Charles, you have Parkinson’s,” Dr. Jogg said.

As a loving daughter who had embarked on this intensive journey 2 1/2 years earlier, after noticing a slight tremor in his left hand, I was stunned. Nowhere along the line had anyone even offered up this concept; I’d been at every doctor visit. The countless tests had been clear. His memory was above par for a man in his 80s, he swam 5-days a week and loved his bike rides.

But no matter what, we journeyed for answers because regardless of what they ever said, my dad knew something wasn’t right.

As a kindred friend and loved one, you don’t question. You just get busy delving in, asking, recording, digging deeper, and demanding that this healthcare system not chalk up any ailments to “simply old age,” and offer up the less-than-adequate prescription of “live with it.”

For me, the diagnosis brought upon skepticism. How could this be so simple, assessed, and diagnosed so quickly by one doctor when countless others hadn’t even recognized a hit of it? Dr. Jogg, with less than a reputable bedside manner, but certainly a reputation for successfully supporting patients with varied neurological anomalies, put me in my place.

“I assure you, Jennifer, this is what it is. It is casebook. Just because you don’t understand it, does not mean that it isn’t so.”

Even so, on top of indignation (which was the easiest go-to in the moment), I was filled with wonder, concern, and a frightening flashback to a book I’d once read by Michael J. Fox about his dance with this particular split-personality villain named Parkinson’s (half blessing/half curse).

For my father, the diagnosis brought on a long slow out-breath that I couldn’t read, amidst the information flowing our way, and the influx of experts offering up pamphlets and support systems.

As we walked back to the car, I gathered my thoughts, swallowed my fears and remembered this truly wasn’t about me. As we belted in, I couldn’t help notice the calm of the air.

“Daddy, how are you? How do you feel about what Dr. Jogg said?”

There was a deep silence, not surprising as my dad has never been one for dramatics and one certainly for the blessings that all of life brings to call us forth to greater knowing and action.

“Jenny, I can’t tell you how relieved I am.”

I suppose if I thought about it, I wouldn’t have been surprised with this answer knowing my daddy, but I wasn’t there yet so I simply listened.

“I’m not crazy Jenny. I’m not. I’ve always known there was something wrong and everyone just kept trying to convince me otherwise. I am happy to know. Now I can see my way forward, no matter what may come. This is a gift.”

Moments define us, don’t they?

Right here, this second, wrapped up with a conscientious bow, was the essence, strength, courage, sweet simplicity, and profound wisdom of my father.

Four years later at 86, Charles is a beautiful enigma for Dr. Jogg.

He still swims, 6-days a week now, bikes as soon as the snow melts, and tucks in each night at 9 p.m. to count his blessings and settle his mind on all that matters most. He flows with life. He does not entertain angst or worry. He surrenders to the perfection in it all, no matter how imperfect it may be.

And always in response to, “How are you feeling Daddy?” he predictably answers, “I have my ups and downs and my memory bothers me a little, but Jenny, honestly I am so grateful to have the health I do and the love of my blessed family.”

Looks like another villain is discovered not to be so treacherous after all and a Hero’s valiant qualities enlighten yet another day, setting an example for us all.

In honor of your CAPEabilities and the qualities you cultivate to inspire others in your midst!

– Jennifer


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