How many times have you heard yourself say, “I deserve better than this?” Maybe you are referring to your relationship, your job, or how people treat you. Are you doing anything to change things or are you putting up with it?
Now, make a list of where you can make changes.
Small tweaks here and there can create huge improvements, but settling or adjusting for how it is right now will not make you happy.
Ask yourself, what will you do today to make it better? What actions and options do you have right now? The first thing that comes to mind is the one that we need follow.
We need courage, strength, and to face our fears etc., but remember, you can do it and only you can.
We all go through these challenges from time to time and it is not an easy one to face. However, taking that time out and thinking things through will help us to be grounded and think of a solution rather than the problem.
If you have a problem, do you face it head on or bury your head in the sand? The head burying may seem like the easy solution and is a temporary act, but the problem never goes away and you end up feeling bad later on, right? It’s like holding water in your palms. Only so much can stay in and the rest will flow away; until you get a tumbler to drink it properly.
So, challenge yourself to face your problems.
Fight your fears and take action.
Take the actions to refine the solutions into simpler ways. Break it down and work on ways you can sort it out. Look at others who were faced with a similar dilemma and ask what they did to work it out. Or, if you were your role model what would you do? Next time, don’t consider burying your head in the sand as an option even if it’s the quickest.
Once you conquer your fears and problems you have done so for a lifetime. That feeling of success is not comparable.
Focusing on the problem is always a worry and a negative energy. Think back, take time, and bring back positive thoughts. These are your weapons to success.
Trying to please everyone is always a thankless task, and is not usually possible. At times, even trying to please one person, whether it’s a family member or a work colleague, can be very challenging. There is only so much you can do, so sometimes the best thing to do is to go with the flow.
Yes, you can do it!