Welcome to Messages from the Light for November 2020 where on the 8th of each month, WU World Changer Marisa Ferrera shares a channeled message for the month with you!
Blaming or Shaming Others Leaves You in The Dark
Until you are willing to shed light on the darkest parts of you that lay hidden deep within you, you will never be able to experience the full light that is waiting to be expressed in the world. You need not fear the dark for it is the illusion of who you are and is but a mask that stops you from seeing and BEING the real you.
Whenever you react to another by blaming or shaming them, you are simply projecting that which is within you onto someone else, increasing the darkness that is around you and within you. Until you are willing to take responsibility for your thoughts, feelings, and actions, regardless of whether or not you feel someone else is to blame, you will NEVER be free from the grip of fear that keeps you stuck and stops you from manifesting what you truly desire.
Whenever you feel judged or offended by another, you can choose to react to them and attack them and make them wrong, or you can choose to look within yourself to see what is underneath these feelings that you are experiencing.
The truth is that no one can offend you, hurt you, or disappoint you without your permission.
Only YOU can allow yourself to feel these things and if you are willing to look deeper within yourself when you feel these things, you will see that at the core is an unmet expectation or fear.
When you are ready to acknowledge that you, in fact, created the very emotions that you are blaming another for and that only YOU have the power to release these emotions and transmute them into Love and Light, then you can free your-self from the darkness within which you are experiencing in your life and live more fully in the light.
This message came to me a few years ago after I asked my guides for a message that could shed some light on a situation I experienced. A friend of mine unfriended and blocked me on Facebook after I sent her a private message sharing with her how a comment she posted in a group we both belonged to could be perceived by others as a complaint and was written in a way that was putting down the person running the group.
I sent her the message with a sincere desire to support her in being more aware of how she was communicating. Since my friend often posted messages about the Law of Attraction, and since she thanked me many times in the past for the support I’d given her, I thought she would be open to what I thought was loving and constructive feedback. I was wrong.
My friend told me to never contact her again, so I chose to energetically send her love, knowing in my heart that the anger she was feeling towards me had nothing to do with me. I was a catalyst for bringing to her attention the anger she was carrying within herself. I prayed that one day, she would be ready to shine light on this anger and let it go.
My guides told me that it was important for me to understand that the more I share my light with others, the more it will expose the darkness that is within them.
They went on to tell me the following:
“Some will welcome this light for they are ready to release this darkness and increase their own light and others will be too confronted and will want to hide in the dark.
Some, like your friend, will strike out at you for it is easier to attack you than it is to face their own inner demons. Do not berate yourself for this for you have no control over the choices of others and you know this. You did well to let her go with love for that is all you can do.”
In addition to what my guides shared with me, what I also learned from this experience was that regardless of my past communication with someone, it’s important for me to ask permission BEFORE I offer any constructive feedback or support and not assume it will always be welcomed.
I’m delighted to let you know that about two years later, my friend reached out to become friends again and I saw a profound shift in her. She began shining and sharing her light and continues to inspire others to do the same.
Keep shining your light no matter what. The world needs you now more than ever!
Love and Blessings,
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