Stop Resisting & Look for the Blessing

Messages from the Light with Marisa Ferrera

Let go of how you think things should be and allow what IS to be perfect just the way it is. Your view of life is limited and based on your limiting thoughts, beliefs, and fears. Whatever is going on in your life right now, in this moment, is exactly what you need to be experiencing for your soul’s evolution and growth or it would not be so. This is hard for many of you to accept, especially if you are experiencing hardship or challenges in your life.

No matter what you are experiencing, it is important for you to continually look within yourself and ask what it is that this experience is here to teach you. Perhaps you are being called to develop more patience, trust, or a deeper capacity for love and compassion. Whatever it is, you can be assured that by being willing to look within to see the truth about what is really going on for you, the burden will be lifted, and you will move forward with more grace and ease.

The key is to stop resisting what you are experiencing and to not get stuck in the role of “victim” for this will surely bring you to deeper and deeper feelings of despair.

There is a blessing in every experience and if you look for it, you will find it.

Marisas Musings

This message isn’t easy to accept and yet I know from personal experiences that it’s true. Whenever I resist what’s going on in my life that I don’t like, things seem to get worse, and I feel more anxiety and stress. It isn’t until I surrender and let go of my attachments to a particular outcome that I begin to feel more peaceful about my situation and also begin to see my path with more clarity.

When I look back at some of my past struggles, I can see the blessings in them. Now, I do my best to look for the blessings in every moment, even when a part of me wishes my circumstances were different. I understand from what I’ve learned about the Law of Attraction that focusing on what I believe isn’t working in my life doesn’t serve me. In fact, it will only bring me more of what I don’t want. Knowing this helps me to let go and move into a state of surrender and trust.

I came across a prayer many years ago written by Marianne Williamson that also supports me during these unpleasant times. I continue to use this prayer whenever I need help in letting go. This prayer has helped me get through many challenging times and I believe it can help you too.

Dear God/Source/Universe,

I surrender this situation to you.

May it be used for your purposes.

I ask only that my heart be open to give and to receive love.

May all the results unfold according to your divine will.



If you’re experiencing challenges in one or more family relationships and have a desire to create more harmony and deeper connections, I invite you to schedule a complimentary call with me. I’d love to support you in getting more clarity around what steps you can take to turn things around in a positive direction.

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